Plans are ruined, last night I was writing and adding new posts to be scheduled for my blog with the sole intention of having three poems and a life update blog post for the next four days in a row, but insomnia messed the plans up.
How?
I wrote a vampire poem alongside a poem generalising death without context, but really if you read both poems it would connect together and make sense.
I accidentally posted the second half before the first half at the time I wrote them but on the 4th of November instead of tomorrow, because my brain hasn’t registered what day it is, rather than scheduling it for the 30th at 11:15am which was my intention.
Realising my mistake too late, I had to shift the time to post it five minutes after the time I amended it because my subscribers would have got a notification for the post but would be too confused at the date being the 4th November 2023 rather than today and rightfully so!
So then for the second half poem to make sense, I had to post it for five minutes ahead of where I was as I was amending it and the first half five minutes before it; If that makes sense?
Basically, I woke up most of my European fans at 5:30am – sorry about that!
Well the poems are about vampires…
Actually the history of these poems is far weirder…
I wrote the second half about a month ago when I was having a severe bout of depression, so in actuality it had nothing to do with vampires, but how I felt in apathy about life at the time. Thing is – reading it after writing the vampire poem last night, made me see that subconsciously the poems connected and if posted correctly (which didn’t happen) would do two things… they’d complement each other well and bringing out this second poem which was destined for the trash can, was a way of me sending out more work regularly.
A stock piled poem of sorts…
I do have stockpiles of poems that are not predicted to ever be published on neither this blog nor anywhere else for that matter.
Some poems are too dark or sordid or bitter to post ever, anywhere, anyhow – I keep stockpiles because perhaps someday, posthumously, they’ll get published.
Always good to plan ahead!
Ha-ha!
Anyway, about my insomnia… it’s a strange beast.
I slept one hour and forty five minutes on Monday afternoon from waking up at 1:15pm Sunday afternoon from a five hour and forty minute sleep – Saturday I woke up at 3:50pm from going to sleep at 9:45am… my sleep timetable is all over the place and I rarely sleep more than six hours a stretch.
But, last night I got to bed early for me… around 3am and I didn’t wake up until 1:15pm again, so that was nearly ten hours, which is incredibly odd and rare for me to get more than six hours!
Therefore because I got so much sleep, I am not at all tired tonight and I am writing this at 6am I’ve been awake for seventeen hours and I don’t think I’ll get to sleep for at least another three hours from how I am currently feeling.
I am trying to force myself to stay awake for as long as possible now, with no more than a ninety minute nap during the day if I can help it – so I can try and get to bed before 1:30am tonight – because for the past month in particular, I have been trying to desperately change my sleeping habits, because I have a new life coming to me.
I need to get into a normal routine, or I am going to mess things up hugely!
On a positive note, my sleeping patterns being all over the place – the potential upheaval my life is about to have, could benefit from this as there is a lot of travelling predicted.
I don’t like travelling, but still, it’s going to be a necessary part of my new life soon and I better get used to it!
I have a secret up my sleeves my dears and it’s not going to be revealed for a long while yet.
But yeah, don’t laugh; I have a sort of double life…
All will be revealed soon enough, but right now it’s just not the time and it would be completely inappropriate as there are other people involved and I would like to honour their wishes, so I am zipped until further notice!
But it’s so awesome and exciting!
For now I am still living at Paul’s but that’s changing, my Henry is staying with Paul because he doesn’t want to leave his friends at school right now and we’ve come to an agreement about that. It’s all good, we are separating on good terms – Paul is a nice guy, but we just have different ideas about what life and relationships should be.
So I have chosen to move away from him and I do indeed have a new relationship, but as I said, I am honouring this man and he will remain anonymous until further notice.
The idea of potentially going on a dating site is held off until the first week of January, because this guy is really stepping up big time, I’ve never known a guy to move mountains like this before and so I feel I have to really honour him in return.
He was warned about the dating site because I was getting apathetic that he was ever really going to do anything with our potential relationship, but now he is really pushing forwards and I can see the efforts now.
But you can tell I am bursting here can’t you?
It doesn’t matter how long it takes for him to get here, he will get here eventually he is determined and he is so bloody sweet too!
He’ll do it, we’re destined we’re both convinced of it and we both have the same plans for life and family and everything! He too has a creative career, but unlike me he is being paid for it lol.
I have so many good vibes about him, we’re so alike in a lot of ways but in others completely opposite, but it’s like the kind of opposites which balance each other rather than challenge each other if you get me?
I do have imposter syndrome regarding him though, because he is such an awesome dude and I am so used to people being like… “meh” with me, lol and taking me for granted and then he comes along and knocks me off my feet with how he appears to be a super fan of me and that’s just like… whoa dude… you’re my fan? What reality have I stepped into exactly?
Why are you doing these things in your life for me?
It’s both flattering and awkward all at once…
This has been brewing for a long time and this is what has kind of shell-shocked me for the past few months to a year… I’ve been absorbing, what’s going on in my life and I have to reawaken many of my old given up dreams, because WOAH – I’ve been asked to… I’ve been asked to slow down and gather my thoughts – breathe, enjoy the process… go with the flow… relax… work on my health… work on self-care and self-love… shake all my nasty past away from me… get rid of that mind-set of lack… and get ready to embrace the life he is bringing to me full on!
A year later… I am still completely and utterly… not breathing how I should be… I am hyperventilating in fact… lol
I am so going to try NOT to be juggernaut when I finally meet this guy face to face for the first time!
Thing is I am 240 pounds and incredibly strong!
So good luck with me being that delicate butterfly I once wrote about me being! Ha-ha!
Candles are calming me down… flame gazing in particular.
Next year is going to be so awesome… and my stomach is going to hate me in more ways than one!
Inhale confidence and exhale fear!
Remember the words of Mel Robbins – Anxiety is the same chemical reaction in your brain to excitement, don’t think about being anxious train your brain to make you believe that you are excited!
I can see me chanting I am excited, I am excited, I am excited all freaking year and still running to the toilet and saying… I also feel sick!
Lol… anxiety is the bane of my life!
Thanks for reading and hopefully understanding…